Pregnant with new H - what to expect from exNPD?

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anxiousmom

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Pregnant with new H - what to expect from exNPD?
« on: January 20, 2020, 11:44:38 AM »
Hi all,

Hoped some of you had some experience with how exNPDs act in this instance. It is very early on, so anything could happen at this stage, but I wanted to prepare and know how to handle and what to watch out for.

Our kiddo will be thrilled as kiddo has been asking for a baby sibling for awhile now. But I know we can't tell our child until I am ready for exNPD H to know. And I know I need to tell exNPD first so he doesn't hear it from our child.

This is obviously something I wouldn't tell him until after 1st trimester, at minimum. Just wondered if anyone else could share their experiences?

Thanks,
AM

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athene1399

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Re: Pregnant with new H - what to expect from exNPD?
« Reply #1 on: January 21, 2020, 03:41:22 PM »
congrats, Anxiousmom!  :fireworks: SO and I do not have children together, so I really can't comment on that, but whatever your ex's reaction is, don't let it ruin your happiness. I do feel it best, as you suggested, that exNPD finds out from you and not your kiddo.