Bad dream

[11JB68]

I feel like someone else had mentioned something similar: uocpdh has sort of a recurring bad dream in which I have cheated on him. He wakes up angry at me.
It's been a while since this has happened, but tonight he told me he had this dream last night.
That he was being a jerk and I was mad so I cheated on him and left. More detail this time...I shacked up with the new guy... Next door!
Now I have some new perspectives on it.
so much of his stuff is projection. So either he is having guilt about wanting to cheat on me OR more likely he is feeling guilt about being a jerk to me. But instead of saying gee I should be nicer to you... He turns it around on me.

[1footouttadefog]

Very possibly it's both.

And both point to him not you.  I would not ba able to avoid making that point 😈