Book on how to keep the kids safe and sane?

[Triniity]

Hi there,
anybody any ideas about a book or books on how to keep the kids happy, safe and sane?
Someway I can lower the impact of this relationship to them?
thanks!

[Penny Lane]

Don't Alienate the Kids! by Bill Eddy is about divorced parents. But it actually contains a lot of strategies for bolstering them emotionally when they have a difficult other parent, whether or not they're in the same house. That might help.

[notrightinthehead]

There is also "When Dad hurts Mom: Helping your children heal from witnessing abuse" by Lundy Bancroft.