Article: 4 Ways to Stop Dysfunctional Ppl from Leaving their Sh*t on our Doorste

[Mathilda]

"We are dragon hearted beings who can firmly say, "Please don't leave your sh*t on my doorstep."


https://www.elephantjournal.com/2020/12/4-ways-to-stop-dysfunctional-people-from-leaving-their-sht-on-our-doorsteps-in-2021-giselle-naidu/

[D.]

Great article!  Thank you for sharing it here.  Recognizing and acting what is "my stuff" or "their stuff" is so important.  I find my personal weakness is trying to take responsibility for someone else's feeling.  This article helped with that clarity.

[Boat Babe]

Good article, punchy and well written.

I know that 'taking responsibility for someone's feelings " schtick. Managing my mother's emotional crises from a young age burned that deep into my brain. It's almost a super power! It's what made me vulnerable to men with PDs, that and a few other classic co-dependant traits. Luckily I know this now, my emotional regulation is greatly improved and I have a great measure of peace. Been a long time coming..

Here's to all the dragon hearted people on the forum.