Feeling lost

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MeFirst

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Feeling lost
« on: June 27, 2021, 09:52:15 PM »
We have family law court again in 3 weeks. Expert report says he (uNpd) can have 5 nights (currently has 4). I think it should be less. But not sure what to do. If I keep defending I'll end up looking like the aggressor, it would be good for this to end but more time doesn't sit right with me either.

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oak_tree

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Re: Feeling lost
« Reply #1 on: June 28, 2021, 12:31:02 AM »
Hi MeFirst,
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling lost. I don't have any particular advice to give, but I certainly know the lost feeling, or something similar.  Stay strong.  :bighug:
OT

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JustKeepTrying

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Re: Feeling lost
« Reply #2 on: June 28, 2021, 01:32:27 AM »
I can't imagine the fear you are experiencing.  My only advice is to ask if you have any recordings or video of abuse?  What does your lawyer say? 

I hope it breaks your way.

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MeFirst

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Re: Feeling lost
« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2021, 02:11:26 AM »
Have requested an appointment with the lawyer, so have to wait. I don't think I recorded any of his rants but might have to check my phone and old files.

I wish I'd thought more about evidence whilst in the relationship.

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BeautifulCrazy

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Re: Feeling lost
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2021, 03:26:08 AM »
Is there anything you can offer, or back off on, as a compromise?