Breaking up with a nonPD romantic partner.

[Boat Babe]

So, I just split up with my very lovely bf of two years. I'm really sad but that's it!

There was never a trace of FOG in the relationship and the break up was honest and kind, both ways. I'm gonna cry a lot, I know but it's not a headf**k. I'm not anticipating hoovering, smearing or any other weird stuff.

Life after PDs carries no assurance of happy ever after but it's a lot more straightforward! Send hugs .

[pianissimo]

 

[Free2Bme]

BoatBabe,

    so sorry, that is always a tough one.  Sending comfort as you move through the process. 

[BeautifulCrazy]

Boat Babe,

Sorry to hear about your breakup. Sending hugs 

High five on having a Non-PD relationship!

Wishing that, soon, only good memories remain.
All the best for the next stages and relationships you enter upon. xo

BC

[Boat Babe]

Thanks all. Just honest sadness and gratitude for a great two years.  Also, all the work I've done on my early life trauma, the attachment wounds and the codependency has really, really paid off. Gonna enjoy being single now 😁

[Hepatica]

Hey Boat Babe,

I'm really sorry it didn't work out. How great though, that you've come so far! You're right. Breakups can be honest and kind. How wonderful to experience a healthy, normal ending. That is a whole lot of healing. This is testament to all of the work you've done. I'm proud of you! And listening to your story gives me hope.

[Sapling]

A big  to you Boat Babe. Your sadness will heal you. Its inspiring to hear how far you've come. I hope you find some solace in the good memories you shared too. Best wishes with this next chapter.