The Return of Batsh#t Crazy

Started by bruceli, August 25, 2021, 07:47:21 PM

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bruceli

PD: What you need to do is stop listening to the professionals and listen to me when I tell you what is wrong!
One will never fulfill their destiny or truly be free, until they can let go of the illusion of control.

Fair doesn't mean equal and best doesn't mean good.

They could see me walk on water, and they would say it is because I can not swim.

tragedy or hope

Yeah. I am forbidden to look at any videos online that are related to Narcissism. Unpdh not being good at internet stuff has not figured out I can open another account or pause the history, which is what I have been doing.
"When people show you who they are, believe them."
~Maya Angelou

Believe it the first time, or you will spend the rest of your life in disbelief of what they can/will do; to you. T/H

Family systems are like spider webs. It takes years to get untangled from them.  T/H

Hazy111

Reminds me of a politician in the UK during  a Brexit TV debate stating " Weve had enough of listening to experts! " and it got roars of approval.  :roll:




bruceli

Previous "batsh*ts" are here:

The Bat Sh*t Crazy Stuff They Do
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=26617.0

Bat Sh&t 2....The sequel...........
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=26899.0

BS 3
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=27150.0

Bat Sh#t 4
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=29380.0

Batsh^t 5
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=30977.0

Bats*it 6..... The Sh#t never stops........ http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=37640.0
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=34306.0

Batsh#t 7....What Color is the Sky in Their World.........
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=35656.0

Bat Sh#t 8....Consistent Inconsistencies..........
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=37640.0

Bat Sh#t 9.....The Fun NEVER Ends...........
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=40079.0

Batsh#t 10
http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=43124.0

Batsh#t 11....Do Bats Have Knees.....
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=48397.0

Batsh#t 12...If a PD Falls in the Forest...Do You Get Blamed........
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=52264.0

Batsh#t 13......... How many PD's does it take to change a light bulb.....
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=54023.0

Batsh#t 14......... " I'm not PD!"..... and other famous last words.......
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=57863.0

Batsh#t 15...... Walking on Eggshells Through a Minefield..........
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=59283.0

Batsh#t 16......... Tis' the Season for Dysregulation fa la la la...............
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=60148.0

Batsh#t 17......... 2017....The Year the NON's will Rise.....
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=61050.0

Batsh#t 18..... Come again, Say what?......
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=62100.0;topicseen

Batsh#t 19.... The sh#t never ends
http://www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=72242.0

Batsh#t 20.... "Nothing's wrong with me"....
//www.outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=75748.0
One will never fulfill their destiny or truly be free, until they can let go of the illusion of control.

Fair doesn't mean equal and best doesn't mean good.

They could see me walk on water, and they would say it is because I can not swim.

Justanotherlostgirl

Me: why don't you want to come back home? What is the reason?

Him: I can't j*ck off and child eats cookies on the bed. You're always angry. I don't know why?

I don't know, maybe it's your childish sense of entitlement and selfishness. I don't know why I care either.


Cat of the Canals

My husband was telling PDmil how he got a weird headache a few weeks ago, and he could see a vein sticking out on his forehead, which then went away as soon as the headache was gone.

PDMIL: Well next time that happens you'll probably just drop dead of a stroke!


In the same conversation, he was telling her about the 50 year warranty on our new roof.

PDMIL scoffed and said, "Well you won't be alive that long!"

bruceli

PD: I said YOU need to change.  You setting boundaries is not changing!
One will never fulfill their destiny or truly be free, until they can let go of the illusion of control.

Fair doesn't mean equal and best doesn't mean good.

They could see me walk on water, and they would say it is because I can not swim.

Fortuna

Yeah, My mom kept trying to give me advice that contradicted the pediatricians. After I would say, well the dr. said this, she's respond with, 'well, if you want to trust the doctor." like I was trusting a homeless man telling me the aliens implanted something in his brain and needs me to listen to him.  :roll: At that point I'd just not respond and do it like the professional told me to.

Boat Babe

Quote from: Hazy111 on August 26, 2021, 07:22:20 AM
Reminds me of a politician in the UK during  a Brexit TV debate stating " Weve had enough of listening to experts! " and it got roars of approval.  :roll:

*shudders
It gets better. It has to.

guitarman

#9
uBPD/NPD sister - "If you really cared about me you wouldn't let me have any financial problems" !!!! (One example - she had run up a bill of over £1,000 from calling a psychic chat line at premium rates on her phone).

"When I die I'm going to come back and haunt you all" !!!

She drove her car to visit me and walked up the garden path. After she came in she said that she'd just had a heart attack!!!

She said she couldn't breathe so I called for an ambulance. She didn't want me to. She asked to talk to the controller. I handed her the phone. She said to them that her brother has a habit of calling for ambulances and that she was OK. I've called for ambulances on several occasions because she thought that she was going to die at any moment. It was the right and caring thing to do!

I could go on and on.


"Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace." - Dalai Lama

"You don't have to be a part of it, you can become apart from it." - guitarman

"Be gentle with yourself, you're doing the best you can." - Anon

"If it hurts it isn't love." - Kris Godinez, counsellor and author

Hattie

Hoovering Narc ex: "I've missed you. You're hard to forget, Harrie".

Me: "Unlike my name, apparently"
Love is patient; love is kind.
It does not envy; it does not boast.
It is not proud. It does not dishonour others.
It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

1 Corinthians 13: 5-8.

Poison Ivy

My ex is at my house because one of our children is in town for a few days from out of state. Ex was talking on the phone to someone. I wasn't trying to eavesdrop; he was outside and talking loud enough for me to hear through the open windows of the living room, and I was visible in the room. I heard him say, "My ex-wife...." I immediately left the room, gathered my stuff, and went on an errand in the car.

JustKeepTrying

PD - Our house is a mess.  We, you, need to give it a good cleaning.  Oh, here is the bag of holey socks I found in the garbage.  I'm sure you didn't mean to throw them out.  I'll put them here on the dining room table.  When's dinner?

escapingman

Before the pandemic I had booked a hotel in a different town to watch a match, I then managed to get an extra ticket and invited a friend that live in a different country. As I already paid for the hotel I let him stay with me for free (part of my invitation to him). uNPDw got angry and shouted at me for not receiving any money from my friend. Next week I am going to visit him and have bought some beer to give him, when questioned by uNPDw with the last debacle in mind I said I bought it for him but he is going to pay for them. She looked at me and told me how stingy and I should give them to him as a present (which is what I am going to do anyway)  :stars:

A couple of months ago we all got Covid-19, uNPDw suffered worst (of course) and lost he sense of taste and smell. She went around for weeks complaining about not being able to smell anything. But in the middle of this, when I was sitting down by my computer eating some snacks (can't remember what it was) and she passes me, stops, looks and me and with a disgusted face looks at me and tells me my food smells horrible - just to go into the kitchen and complain to the kids how she can't smell anything.  :doh:

losingmyself

Yesterday, I mentioned a thing I saw on FB.
"You were looking at FB while you were talking to me?"
"Yeah. You share things while we're talking"
"No, I don't"

Today
Shares things on FB while we're talking.
:stars:

Maz

Buying  my partner clothes for Christmas that were really expensive resulted in accusations of me controlling him. However when my partner bought me clothes for Christmas it was because again he was being controlled, spending all his money on my and was such a nice thing to do.

I was also accused of control because my partner goes to the men's barbershop ever few weeks. Some how it was all my doing and   became me controlling him.

It's so ridiculous I don't have any words.

SonofThunder

#16
SoT:  "Mrs SoT, there is a 2 minute YTube video i want to show you about a young entrepreneur, do you have time to watch now"? 

Mrs SoT: "SoT, i do have time and i appreciate you asking me if I had the time, as most people just put the phone in my face and say "watch this!"   (She watches video....only comment "yes he is young"). 

15 minutes later....phone shoved in SoT's face.

Mrs SoT:  "watch this!"   

Lol 😂
Proverbs 17:1
A meal of bread and water in peace is better than a banquet spiced with quarrels.

2 Timothy 1:7
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

Hazy111

Reminds me  instantly of BPDs in my FOO and that heading in "Understanding the Borderline Mother", "the rules they apply to others dont apply to them"  :roll:

SonofThunder

Quote from: Hazy111 on November 06, 2021, 08:48:31 AM
Reminds me  instantly of BPDs in my FOO and that heading in "Understanding the Borderline Mother", "the rules they apply to others dont apply to them"  :roll:

Exactly. Hypocrisy is just SO prevalent!

SoT   
Proverbs 17:1
A meal of bread and water in peace is better than a banquet spiced with quarrels.

2 Timothy 1:7
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

1footouttadefog

Pdh was up for dinner like usual.  (He has his own apt. In the lower level of house and comes up for dinners and some lunches)

My daughter had made a pumpkin pie two days before.  He asks if he can have a piece.  I take pie from fridge and cut a slice from about a third if a large pie.

Pd says. Wow, I did not eat all that I only had one piece. 

I stated I had one and this is the third I have given you.  DD probably had a couple slices also.

Pdh. I don't want it, never mind. 

Then he got up and went back downstairs. 

The next morning he asks:Did you guys eat my pie last night?

I said no.

He ate it at lunch time. 

WTH??