Wife with Covert Narcissism

[NBRiverGuy]

Square-Yes. Over Thanksgiving, we go out of town to visit our families. Both sides of our family live in the same town. In addition to her usual guilt-tripping me about me not spending time with her side, which is untrue, she blew up at my mom add sister for no reason. You're all against me type stuff. They are smart. They don't engage with her. After she settled, I went to take a shower and broke down crying and I am not a crier. When we got back home, I told her that I would not spend another holiday with her like that. If it happens again, I'm out. Thanksgiving will be the one-year mark. I figure that's a fair amount of time for both of us.