Thank you all 🤗

Started by livingthedream, November 21, 2020, 09:22:21 AM

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livingthedream

I just wanted to say a big THANK YOU here.
I was in a 5 year relationship with an extremely jealous and needy man.
I started in this forum 2 years into the relationship and I have to say, this was an eye opener, I slowly managed to come to clarification within myself, understanding that I would never be able to change him, but that I had to change myself.
Thanks to our work we had to move apart, different countries and were just seeing each other from time to time. Even so, it took me 3 years more to separate, and sorry to say, but the actual situation and closed borders has been of great help in this.
There has been no contact for more than 6 months now and I have doubtful back to my old self. There's still a lot of work to do within myself, but I am on the right path.
To all those in a toxic relationship, keep reading, keep engaging, write a diary with all those situations you don't like, find a good psychologist, not for your partner, but for yourselves and no matter how long it will take you, you will manage!

Joga

That's a great update! So glad you are starting to feel like your old self again.