Married to a narc

[Confused213]

Hi, im new here, looking for some advise and hopefully some idea as to what im experiencing, i think my husband is a narcissist!  Ive been told by many friends but i dont know what signs to look for.  Can any one tell me how i can deal with this. BEGGING FOR SOME EXPERIENCED CONVO'S

[notrightinthehead]

Welcome! You have found a good place, full of information and support. As a start you might want to start at the Personality disorders tab to find out what traits to look for. After that, you might find some good ideas what to do and what not to do on the toolbox tab.
Sorry you had to find us and glad you did.

[Boat Babe]

Hi there Confused. Welcome. Here you will find sanity and compassion. You need to understand your situation, with clarity and urgency.  I say urgency because in another post you mention that your husband has physically abused you very recently.  That is a matter of great concern and you MUST take it very seriously. When abusers start getting violent, they are escalating.  You are at risk.

Please contact a domestic violence agency. Please don't waste too much time diagnosing your abuser. You know he's toxic and dangerous, and that's enough. Read up the Tools section of the Out of the FOG website. You will need them. Reach out to someone you TRUST if you haven't already. Read up on trauma bonds and the addictive aspect of these relationships.

You sound like you're in a really bad place and you need to protect yourself as an absolute priority. Keep talking to us here.