New here, just trying to be free of the hurtful people

[ShyTurtle]

So no sooner did I get out of yet another relationship with a narcissist/bpd person who hurt me very badly, and into a (temporary) living situation with another person who has a personality disorder. I wrote about this in the other relationships section.

My entire life I have ended up in relationships with abusive people because of my adoptive mother who started the trend for me. It's taken some therapy, and I feel like I'm finally starting to learn what the red flags are and how to have stronger boundaries.

Given my current situation, I ended up here for a place to vent and get a little extra support.

Thanks for including me!

[SunnyMeadow]

 

Hi ShyTurtle,

Vent away! It makes me feel better when I do; I hope it does for you too. I'm glad you're starting to learn what red flags are and how to have stronger boundaries! See you around the forums.

[bloomie]

Hi there ShyTurtle! So thankful you found us and have joined the community. How fulfilling to be recognizing patterns and vulnerabilities in your past relationships and to be building new awareness. What a healing path you are on.

If you have not already, take a look through the resources available at the drop down menus above and the resource and recommendation boards.

I read through your post on the other board and am so sorry this roommate situation has turned into such a painful experience. Hoping you find a safe and peaceful place to live very soon and that you find your time here of great help to you!