The grief and pain of the Mother wound

[Jolie40]

  I don't want any stuff shes clearing out of her house.

before NC, PD parent asked which collectables I would like

(have several siblings)
said first choice - no that goes to GC
gave second choice- no that goes to so and so, etc

repeat above for next collection
why even ask me? just another "stick it to me" that ALL other siblings rank above me cause I'm SG

& like you LindaLoo, nothing I really want
and for me- why have a reminder that anything I'd receive are leftovers- what all other siblings didn't choose

[Lilyloo]

jolie40,  I understand about the GC. My mother is living with him now. How awful is it that your mother gave you last choice    Typical tho, they all seem to have that one child who can do no wrong, who needs all the pity and attention. It's very much like that in my family too. It's extremely mean in my opinion.  They love to do that "stick it to me" thing. Mine is a hoarder.  Always junk everywhere.  She got so mad because I just simply said "I have no room for anything"  Oh well, it can sit and the rest can haul it off. I'm pretty much out of that mess. Thanks for posting.  I'm sorry you went thru all of that.