I've been split. Hard

[Bunnyme]

It is mind boggling how PDs operate.    in the morning, it was all how appreciative he is of all I've done, blah, blah...
Then he got the offer.  Youd think I was the worst human being.  My attorney says he is just mad and will come around to being more reasonable.  I sure hope so, but I'm not holding my breath.  It is hard to not take it personally...I know in his mind he probably actually believes this is all my fault...but I am struggling with balancing that with my own hurt and anger over the very real issues he is causing.

[Simon]

Yeah, it's hard to keep remembering that we're not dealing with normal people.
We give them way too much credit because of the mask they used for so long, and sometimes forget that we're basically dealing with emotional children.

Hope you can take comfort in the fact that you're finally getting somewhere, and that you will eventually have peace.

They really are wired differently.
To cheer you up, here's an illustration of their cognitive process...

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BareRespectfulBarasinga-small.gif

[Boat Babe]

 

[JustKeepTrying]

Such a hard time and so difficult emotionally.  The back and forth and the guilt, anger, frustration and so much more.  I am so sorry you are going through this.

Try to look at it this way - his behavior is reinforcing your need for a divorce. 

Whether he accepts, counters - you are taking a positive step for yourself and taking care of yourself.   

Like said before, their thinking isn't normal - it is truly simpson like.