Ghosting

Started by Poison Ivy, June 01, 2021, 08:29:29 AM

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Poison Ivy

My ex-spouse is ghosting again. This time, the ghosting comes a few weeks after positive (IMO) interactions with me and our adult daughters, who have visited our home state after being vaccinated. One of the children left a few weeks ago, and the other is scheduled to depart at the end of this week. The one leaving this week has texted her dad, but he has not responded, nor did he respond to a few very brief messages I sent. I know that any energy I exert being angry or sad is a waste of my limited emotional resources. I'd appreciate suggestions for positive things to help get me through the next several days.

Thank you.

JustKeepTrying

Ghosting really s*cks.  It's the silent treatment all over again and then when they resurface, the gaslighting and excuse-making. 

I am so glad you had/have time with your adult daughters.  That is precious and beautiful.  Love it and stay present in those moments.

His ghosting is his problem.  Lifting you up from afar.

Poison Ivy

Thank you, JustKeepTrying.