Divorcing an OCPD husband

[newlife7]

Hello,
I'm new here and would like any advice anyone might have on divorcing a hostile OCPD husband. We have 2 kids and he's scary.  I gave up trying to fix him and our hostile marriage.  He's verbally and emotionally abusive and he refuses to take responsibity for his affair, lying and abuse.  This is no way to live and I don't want to normalize dysfunction to my two children.

[notrightinthehead]

Welcome! You have come to a good place, full of information and support.  As a start read around on the TOOLBOX tab, you might find useful strategies there. 
We are all at different stages of our journey of healing and I am sure you will find that you are not alone.  See you around on the boards!