Eating and manners

[Simon]

Well, we know that a PD's emotional development is arrested at a very young age, so.....

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[Pepin]

DPDmil has taken her lack of manners to a new level: burping and farting out loud.  I don't know how one even responds to that so I just said nothing.  It happened multiple times and I was very uncomfortable being near her.  I sincerely doubt that she is having control issues with these bodily functions; I am certain that she does it because she knows she can and won't get called out on it.  Being around her continues to be soul crushing.  It is hard to have empathy for her anymore. 

[Honey_B]

DPDmil has taken her lack of manners to a new level: burping and farting out loud.  I don't know how one even responds to that so I just said nothing.  It happened multiple times and I was very uncomfortable being near her.  I sincerely doubt that she is having control issues with these bodily functions; I am certain that she does it because she knows she can and won't get called out on it.  Being around her continues to be soul crushing.  It is hard to have empathy for her anymore.

My mother did this too, back when I had contact with her. Now I have been NC for almost a year.
I see this kind of behavior as big F*** You Finger right in my face. She couldn't even be bothered to keep the most basic amount of manners in my presence, its complete disrespect. She knew exactly what she was doing.

[p123]

Oh yes Dad does this ALL the time......

He even pees in a bottle downstairs because he cant be bothered to take his stairlift to the bathroom. Its like "you dont mind do you?" Ewww then I glance over my should and hes there with a bottle...

I've told this story a few times about the peeing on the trip away. He peed twice in my car (long story he had no pads because he was too tight to buy them) on the way down. I insisted he buy some pads for the journey home..... He did'nt want to - "but its just us too in the car it doesnt matter". In other words, I can pee myself and sit in and you've got sit in the car for hours with me.

I remember it was a rental car too. I had to go home the sunday night and scrubs the seats. I could just see them notice and sending me a massive bill for destroying the seats. I felt a bit bad for the next person to rent that car and sit in the passenger seat Ewww......