New, but Old. BPD mom nightmare.

[JustPeace]

Hi -
Years ago I was on BPD Central Forum, not sure if this is a similar place. That place gave me information, comfort and insight. I think this forum has the same vibe.
I am an adult daughter (50s) of a BPD mother (likely Witch/Queen). I have read all the books (SWOE and all the others), married to a man with a Queen ex-wife (successful move-away of sons in California, when they were 3 and 5, judge approved since she was "stay-at-home" mom.) who manipulates and terrorizes my bonus-sons who are 16 and 18. I know too much about BPD, jeezus! This is not my concern at the moment. Shocking. My FOO mother is the nightmare currently.

I have managed my BPD mom for years with no to low Contact. More recently she has put a wedge between my sister (my only sibling, who is 11 months older than me), and it is destroying me. My sister is under the BPD spell saying things like "I know how to handle her." Anyway, I am here for support and advice and I am thankful for this group. Just looking for Peace. Thank you.
- JustPeace

[xredshoesx]

welcome to the group justpeace

i too have a unBPD mother.  at this point i've been NC with her over half my life.  it must be really difficult to see your sister in that position where she is  putting herself in place to be taken advantage of by your mother.  my heart goes out to you for having to experience that. 

we have an active co-parenting section for our members with bonus children like you who are also trying to coparent with  uPD/ PD exes.

looking forward to seeing you on the boards when you are ready to share more.