Update - I made it!

Started by Justanotherlostgirl1, November 27, 2021, 12:32:26 AM

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Justanotherlostgirl1

So I've finally escaped after 7 years of hell.

It was so hard, and of course, I was feeling so guilty, but I did what I had to do.

Obviously, there is more to come. I still have to divorce him and get full custody of my child, but right now I'm just so happy that I'm in my country with my family. It's a totally different world, but it's peaceful.

Thanks to all of you who supported me and helped me through everything. I gained so much strength from all of you. ❤️

Boat Babe

Big, massive sighs of relief all round. Well done you!

Let the healing begin!
It gets better. It has to.

escapingman

I am so happy for you! Congratulations and well done!

Gettintired76

Congratulations honey we are all so happy for you keep your head up girl you got this!

SonofThunder

What fantastic news!!  You are SO very brave, in the face of the unknowns that your PDh would have attempted to manipulate your leaving the country, and for facing the unknowns of your husbands potential behaviors toward you.  VERY. WELL. DONE.   

You have done what is good and right for your little boy and someday, he will learn the bravery and persistent toughness of his mother and model himself after his heroic mom.  I look forward to reading of your continued progress toward legal freedom from this marriage, which i understand may take some time, per your careful unfolding plan. 

I will continue to keep both you and your child in my thoughts and prayer.

SoT
Proverbs 17:1
A meal of bread and water in peace is better than a banquet spiced with quarrels.

2 Timothy 1:7
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

square

Wow!!! Congratulations!! You are a HERO!!

Lauren17

Congratulations! :applause:
You have been very brave and you've accomplished something truly amazing.
Enjoy your peace.
Please, take care of yourself. Gain your strength for the next leg of you journey.

I've cried a thousand rivers. And now I'm swimming for the shore" (adapted from I'll be there for you)

Andeza

Such wonderful news! So glad you made it out! :yourock:
Remember, that there are no real deadlines for life, just society's pressures.      - Anonymous
Lasting happiness is not something we find, but rather something we make for ourselves.

Worthy of Care

Glad you are safe and in a place of peace.