Updm is dying

[1footouttadefog]

I am sorry for your loss.  I hope that soon only positives will remain and healing from the complex aspects will have taken place. 

Stay strong for these interactions.  Sigh, family stuff can be a minefield especially after someone dies. 

[nanotech]

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Sending my best thoughts out to you for healing and closure. Both will come. xx

[11JB68]

The issue did not come up at FILs.
Either he didn't know (yet?) Or chose to say nothing.

I'm wondering if at some point I may want to try to connect with enF.
Lots of thoughts on that and def would wait a while before deciding or reaching out