Waking up

[D.Dan]

My divorce from uPDex is finalised now. 

Yesterday I felt more awake then I have in, I don't know how long. Years.
I feel like I'm waking up from a really long bad dream.

Things don't seem as difficult as it was a year ago. I'll have to work hard to straighten our lives out (my kids and I) but it's actually doable!

I'm taking things nice and slow, no big changes only what I can handle. Like that saying of how "Rome wasn't built in a day", neither can someone rebuild years from a person's lifetime in one day.

Thanks for the support everyone! 

[moglow]

  DEFINITELY take your time and build a life you love instead of tolerate. Even baby steps matter!

[SonofThunder]

DEFINITELY take your time and build a life you love instead of tolerate. Even baby steps matter!

Yay!  Congratulations on your success and new freedom! 

SoT

[Kat54]

Congratulations! Baby steps for sure, and it's your life now, so do as you please at your pace. You deserve it.

[1footouttadefog]

I hope you live in peace and can provide a happy home for the kids

[Free2Bme]

So very happy for you D.Dan. 

I am now almost 6 years out and can still feel the layers coming off.  There is so much for you to look forward to.

Thanks for the update, hugs

[JustKeepTrying]

So happy for you!  I am sending you peace hope and serenity for you and your children.

[hhaw]

Congrats, D!

You take as much time as you need to decompress and remember your old self again.  They're in there.... getting stronger.

You might take many months to sit and think before jumping into anything and that's OK. 

I'm so glad you're OUT!
YAY YAY!