Hello

Started by CanarySong, February 05, 2022, 11:24:55 AM

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CanarySong

Hello, all. I'm really glad that this forum is here.
I have 3 people in my life who are narcissists—one of them is sociopathic ( my sister).
The sociopath never ceases to amaze me. In fact, they all are "crazy-makers".

guitarman

Welcome. You are not alone.

I have an undiagnosed BPD/NPD sister who has caused havoc and chaos in our family for decades. I now call her my abuser and I am her target of abuse.

I follow the author and counsellor Kris Godinez on her YouTube channel called "We Need To Talk with Kris Godinez". She specialises in Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome and how targets of abuse can cope better. She has really helped me to understand what I have experienced and what I can do to help myself.

Keep calm. Stay strong. Stay safe. Keep posting.
"Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace." - Dalai Lama

"You don't have to be a part of it, you can become apart from it." - guitarman

"Be gentle with yourself, you're doing the best you can." - Anon

"If it hurts it isn't love." - Kris Godinez, counsellor and author

GentleSoul

Welcome, CanarySong. 

Narcs certainly are difficult to be around.  I had a series of covert narcs in my life, they are certainly difficult and exhausting to be around.

CanarySong

Thank you Guitarman and Gentle soul. I appreciate your kind welcome and understanding.

1nferior

Hi, I thought I'd introduce myself, I'm new, my father has almost destroyed me.  I'm 49 and have just begun to stand up to him, it's made things worse.  In doing so I found out so much from so many, I feel validated and hurt.  It effects me day and night.  Would like to make some friends and chat.  I'm registered as 1nferior, please, call me M, as many do....  Peace be with you all, good souls you are!