Saying hi

[CQB5]

Hey! I'm new to Out of the FOG. I've been with my partner for 9 years and only realized in the past six months or so that they may have Borderline  PD. To be transparent, they are not in therapy (are honestly resistant to it) and so have not been officially diagnosed. I am in therapy working through some stuff around having been raised by a narcissistic parent and unlearning co-dependent relational patterns. Just looking to build some community here as I navigate how to address stuck patterns with my partner, particularly as they do not seem interested to address their own traumas, learned patterns, and potential BPD.

[xredshoesx]

welcome to the group cq-

i'm also here because of both family traits and choices i made in my relationships as an adult.   i was posting somewhere else with some of the folks who were also posting here and through the threads and self work and community push i got help, got better at owning my own stuff and was able to be in a healthier place in both my marriage and professional realm because i dealt with that childhood stuff.