Am struggling

[puddlediver]

After over 40 years of marriage it's only in the last 12 months that I've realised that my partner has personality issues. Thank goodness that I've found this board. I'm nearly at my wits end with confusion and desperation. I'll take a proper look at posts soon. Thanks all.

[notrightinthehead]

Welcome! We are here to listen when you are ready to share.
Have a good read at the Toolbox you might find some strategies there that you might find helpful in your situation. See you around on the boards.

[puddlediver]

Only last week I told my so that I would do the particular job myself next time it needed doing. Wait for it ........ he promptly stated that it was me that did it last time anyway! This is so untrue. I let him do it himself so he wouldn't create a fuss. He made a mess of it. Not only did he deny that he had done it he had the effrontery to put the blame on me. This sort of stuff is what messes with my head!