Take a seat, inner critic!

Started by Amadahy, June 30, 2022, 10:31:01 PM

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Amadahy

Hello dears,

I'm putting this in writing here, to make myself more apt to do it.   ;)

Somehow, I've allowed myself to believe that self-care is selfish.  Anytime I do anything healthy or kind or loving for myself, I feel guilty and wrong.  Logically, I know this is a false belief, but my inner critic hasn't gotten the message.  As Rodney Norman says, our subconscious is kind of a jerk.  LOL.  (He's a darling youtube comedian who always makes me laugh.)  Anyway .....

Tomorrow, July 1, I'm beginning a dedicated practice to bodywork that will help calm my nervous system, primarily vagal nerve work, breathwork, and others.  I'm setting aside a corner of my beautiful porch for this.  It is my haven, my safe space and I want to associate it with healing work and with telling my inner critic to take a hike.  :wave: I feel like my health is at a tipping point and it's now or never.

So, now it's Out of the FOG official and I must follow through.   :yes:

Second half of 2022, I'm gonna own you!!!   8-)  :git: :groovey: :righton: :yahoo:

Hugs and blessings, kindred.  I'm so grateful for you and that I can come here and you "get it."  Thank you.   :yourock:

:hug: 
Ring the bells that still can ring;
Forget your perfect offering.
There's a crack in everything ~~
That's how the Light gets in!

~~ Leonard Cohen

Boat Babe

That's really good to hear Amadahy. Self care is not selfish. It is an act of love. You are resetting the balance ❤️
It gets better. It has to.

hhaw

Amadahy:

Becoming aware of unconscious belief systems is where change begins, IME.

Thanks for sharing your amazing post: )
hhaw



What you are speaks so loudly in my ears.... I can't hear a word you're saying.

When someone tells you who they are... believe them.

"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger."
Nietchzsche

"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness."
Eleanor Roosevelt

notrightinthehead

Sounds great! Now you have got the place - have you set a time?
I can't hate my way into loving myself.