Getting Out

[StonerQueen]

Hello

I don't even know where to start.

I have created and deleted my post like 5 times.

I'm trapped a horrible marriage and I just want to go, go somewhere else. Live in peace.

[SonofThunder]

Hello StonerQueen,

First, a very warm welcome to Out of the FOG. Im happy you decided to join. All of us here walk these same paths together, as we share in the experiences of living our lives affected by relationships with those with a personality disorder (PD).

Im sorry you are struggling with being trapped in a horrible marriage and look forward to your sharing about your experiences with the PD person in your life. You are not alone.

In addition to joining us around the friendly campfire chats of the forum boards, I want to recommend that you visit the Personality Disorders tab, and the Toolbox tab on the top right of every page of this website.

The Personality Disorders tab contains the top 100 traits, and I suggest you look through them and see which ones align with your experiences. After doing so I recommend you slide one tab to the right to the Toolbox tab, which will help you to begin learning ways to better enable yourself, as you move forward in your decision-making.

See you around the boards,

SoT

[blunk]

Welcome StonerQueen,

Just like you, when I joined, I wrote and rewrote my initial post...afraid that it would sound too crazy, because what I was going through WAS crazy! I honestly believed that I must be the only one who was experiencing some of those horrible things. But, for better or worse, I was not. And sometimes just knowing that we are not alone in all of this is enough to help us to start seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

Please feel free to share more of your story when you are able.

[bloomie]

Hi and welcome. We look forward to hearing more when you are ready. In the meantime, keep coming back and reading threads, resources, and listening to recommended vids.