Hopefully optimistic H

[Dig]

Hey all.
I'm Diggs
I've been in one relationship now at 25 years married for ten on Friday and raised to kids to adulthood. My wife is one of the sweetest kindest and beautiful ppl you could ever hope to meet. Over the past year her bpd has been worsening every step forward seems to be backward 2 or 3.
Hopefully I can find some of the answers here or a nudge in the right direction
Just got to understand the questions I need an answer for first.

[bloomie]

Hi Diggs! Welcome to Out of the FOG. I am thankful you found us, but sorry things are worsening with your wife.

You have come to a community of people who know the struggle and frustration of not being able to make good progress forward with a loved on who has disordered traits and responses.

The toolbox at the drop down tabs above is a great starting point along with other resources that you will find throughout the forum. Take your time to look around there is a lot here for you.

The conversations that take place in the community have been invaluable in equipping myself with healthy tools and coping in my own marriage to a person with traits and behaviors that have been difficult to navigate.

There is something that happens in those conversations where you might see another person's similar experiences that help us know we are not alone and that there are ways to begin to direct our understanding and energies around what we can control and change that this is always only ourselves.

Starting a thread posing a question you may be looking for answers to is a great way to get feedback and support.

I look forward to seeing you out on the boards and supporting you as you settle in!