Can he understand

[Deby64]

I do understand that the UPDH has paranoia however there has to be a way for him to understand how it makes me feel when he distrust my every move, thinking I'm out to get him. I'm not sure if it's even worth having a conversation because I'm really working on JADE it's difficult, but I've had some success. I'm looking to see if anyone has experience with sharing how the paranoia makes them feel and if it made any type of positive difference.

[notrightinthehead]

In my experience there is no reasoning with a person who is in the throes of rage, paranoia, despair. Any attempts will end up confirming their feelings. The delusional system seems to be watertight. Your best bet would be to wait till he is open to reason again.