Hello, experience with BPD discard

[Darkmoor1]

Hi, so I'm new here. I got discarded by my partner od 2 years. We were trying to have a child together for days consecutively, then, on my birthday, she made me a cake and went on to cheat with a guy she was seeing behind my back (and whom she knew for barely 2 weeks at that point.) I found out that day after, complete devaluation followed by he, and humiliation as she would bring this guy home. I ended up suicidal. I moved out of the apartment eventually. It's been barely 3 months.

[Rebel13]

I'm very sorry you have gone through such a difficult experience. It sounds like you are doing the best you can to make a safe, peaceful space for yourself and try to reclaim your life.

I wanted to let you know about the blog Chumplady where there are a lot of discussions, comments, and resources for people coping with infidelity.

Keep hanging in there and take care of yourself.

[bloomie]

Darkmoor1 - welcome to Out of the FOG. What a devastating turn this relationship has taken. How wise to remove yourself from such treatment, yet so difficult to face the reality of it all.

Keep coming back and reading, reach out to your in real life support and take good care of yourself as you heal and move forward.