He's bugging me again!!!

[Juju]

Well here I am again .... my partner has many issues, the big one being anxiety ridden about doing things, going into a different area, wide spaces, flying, ferries and driving long distances. This pretty much covers everything, of course I have to do things on my own. We have a one year lease left on our house and during this time I am going to decide either to stay or go.

I do love him but I was thinking about him and I living apart but still be together.  This way his sleeping half the day his phobias and other dysfunction in life wouldn't bother me so much and I could go about my life without feeling guilty about maybe staying at my sons for a few nights, going on more trips, just doing what I what without his negative input.  I'm not getting any younger!

[xredshoesx]

before I got married an idea I had was to buy a duplex where I could have one side and my spouse could have the other....

if it's livable and workable for you it makes sense to consider it. 

[Juju]

sounds like a great idea if i could afford it ..... the only problem is he would know when I was coming and going and it wouldn't really be very private ... lol