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[Buffy37160]

Hello I'm new on here.I am proud Grammy of 2 beautiful grandkids.I'm so glad I came across this site. I'm in a relationship with a man who is narcissist.His narcissistic behavior, and abusive ways has become very unbearable especially since he has lost his job.He is also a alcoholic along with narcissistic behavior.Until I never thought a human being could be so cruel to another person, especially when they claim they love you.I'll post my story in a little bit.


*moderator note= edited to remove identifying details

[xredshoesx]

welcome to the group -i'm glad you found us.  you are among people who get it.

my ex wasn't diagnosed either and definitely had substance abuse issues.  one of the big realizations I made here was I was dating people who needed to be 'fixed' in order to fix a relationship between my birth mother and myself that will never be repaired.....

when you are ready we are listening-  until then take care and know we are here for you.

[Buffy37160]

Thank you for the welcoming and it helps to no that it's people that understand and not be judgemental and say I'm partial the blame because I allow it.

[bloomie]

Welcome, Buffy. I am thankful you have found this community of supportive people. Keep coming back as you are able and join the conversations on the boards. Wishing you wisdom and strength as you find the best way forward for yourself.